Rants About Girls

I’ve been searching my mind for something of worth to write with no success. I don’t blame myself. I’ve never liked writing. From primary school short essays to university essays; they don’t excite me. I’m not a man of many words either. I just thought I should write something to keep my blog running just like a musician has to keep on producing hits to keep his career running. I’ll talk about girls this time and I can assure you that this won’t be the last time.

Most young women aren’t happy when you call them girls so like in economics; let’s assume girls here means females in general. About 90 percent of the music I listen to is about girls. There are more girls in the world than boys. They say it’s a man’s world and that men rule the world but we fail to see that women rule men. Women rule men. It’s bad. The things I see boys do for girls amazes me. They won’t even do it for themselves. Well, all this depends on the girl. She has to know the right way to keep him interested all the time. There’s the issue of love but i won’t delve into that because that phenomenon will take us into different realms. So there’s a way of keeping a guy without him loving you.

Some (or most, I’m not sure) girls care a lot about their appearance. That’s good. Most of their money and effort goes into ‘looking good’. Guys are visual creatures so makes sense. A girl can spend an hour getting ready just for a 30 minute outing and so on. Again, that’s good. Now let’s face fact. As much as we may lie to ourselves, everyone is not beautiful. That’s just how it is. And funny enough everyone thinks beauty is outward. There’s inner beauty too. While most girls spend half of their time in mirrors trying to look good, the ones who have had good advice or have thought well enough about life will think of developing a good character (inner beauty). Outer beauty will capture any guy but if you don’t have that inner beauty, he won’t be around for long.

It’s true that girls should be treated like princesses but when I was growing up, I hardly saw rude and moody princesses on TV. They were all happy, hopping around and so understanding. Princesses were sweet and thus, were treated accordingly. Unfortunately, girls were built to be moody (at least so they say) but not rude. There’s always a time (of the month) in a girl’s life when she can be moody. Those mood swings are so deadly. They come unannounced and can cause destruction. Whether you liken them to hurricanes, tsunamis or power outages, they are deadly. It’s like the girl’s system is hibernating. Or like a movie, “to be continued…..” Things will only go back to normal when the mood leaves. But no matter how bad something may be, there’s always a way of making it look good. How the girl handles herself is the key. Knowing what to say before, after or during can go a long way in reducing the devastating effect of mood swings. Most of the girls who’ll read this are big girls. Know how to handle yourself.

For the rude girls, we know; you’re tired of being approached by ‘useless’ boys. I won’t say don’t judge books by their covers because we’re not talking about books. Metaphorically too, everyone is entitled to their own opinion. But sadly, I’ve seen so many girls throwing so many guys with good intentions away. It’s the most common thing after blinking. Be nice. You might never know anyone’s true intention but if you don’t give them chances, you’ll never know. Being rude is unattractive!

God created girls with two X chromosomes and it’s for a reason; don’t act like you have Y chromosomes. Every time I see a girl trying to act like a guy, it puts me off. Some girls prefer to be called ladies and that’s how girls should carry themselves. My dictionary says ladies are refined women. Left to me alone, that’s how every girl should be. Of course you are allowed to be all you want to be with those you are comfortable with but in public, be a lady.

I read everything above this paragraph and it seemed like I was giving out advice. That’s not my intention. I’m just saying. Again, everything here doesn’t sum up everything about women. There’s more to come.

Most of all I’ve written may not apply to gay boys. I believe I’m speaking for a fraction of boys if not all. But my opinion is just my opinion; nothing more. Man has decided to name some things as wonders of the world. I didn’t see any of the 8 wonders or so include a girl. I believe girls are wonders of this world. Girls rule this world. Girls are beautiful phenomena and every girl is beautiful in her own way.